Thursday, December 15, 2011

Daily Dose of Cute

image of Zelda the Black-and-Tan Mutt sitting at my knee looking up at me
"Love me, Two-Legs."

Zelda may well be the snuggliest, cuddliest, petmepetmepetme dog of all time. She loves getting attention from anyone and everyone; when someone walks in the door, she immediately has to run to the toybox to get a squeaky toy and squeak it with uncontrollable excitement.

And I'm pretty sure she begs to go out in the rain just so she can come back in and get dried off with a fluffy towel.

Word of the Year

Pragmatic. According to Merriam-Webster. I'm sure President Obama is very proud!

Photo of the Day

image of Secretary of State Hillary Clinton walking out of a room with Kosovo President Atifete Jahjaga; Clinton's arm is around Jahjaga's shoulders.
Kosovo President Atifete Jahjaga (right) and US Secretary of State Hillary Clinton leave the room after signing an agreement between the two countries on December 14, 2011 at the State Department in Washington. [Getty Images]
(A picture of the two of them working, in which their faces are visible, can be seen here.)

@scatx: @Shakestweetz >> Clinton being amazing in pink once more >> Photo from Getty Images bit.ly/sKvwXa

@Shakestweetz: @scatx I saw that set last night, and the same picture you picked out was also my favorite (of course).

@scatx: @Shakestweetz one day, we are going to meet and we are just going to talk for like three straight days. #samebrain

@Shakestweetz: That picture could totally be the Knope/Perkins ticket on inauguration day. #icanmakeanythingaboutparksandrec

@scatx: YES IT COULD.

Improvements, Part Two

[Part One.]

There's a hole in my driveway, dear Liza.

image of my driveway with a huge dirt pit where the bottom of my driveway used to be

the dirt pit

The vibrating has somewhat diminished, now that the destruction of concrete is mostly complete. Now I am able to hear the workers shouting and laughing and hollering all day. I certainly don't begrudge them having fun on the job; it just makes more difficult the task of writing when one's mind keeps seeking to listen to voices outside the window. Not that the vibrating was better.

(Yes, I have thought of earplugs, but my goddamn stupid ear canals are too shallow to keep them in. This has been the bane of my existence since the invention of ear buds, when I was still walking around with my Walkman earphones plugged into my Discman like a TOTAL LOSER! So I was told.)

We didn't find out when the end of our driveway was demolished until about 10 minutes before the work began. Iain was leaving for work, and the crew had to move so he could back the car out. It was then they told him our driveway would not be accessible "until further notice." Some of our neighbors were not so lucky, and their cars are landlocked in their driveways. Or were, until they drove across lawn after lawn down the street, until they were free.

Anyway! There's a hole in my driveway. But the improvements are coming. So I am told.

Top Chef: Texas Open Thread



Padma and Tim Somedude get all judgemental with Heather's dish.

Top Chef continues in some non-descript state that I think is maybe Oregon. Could be any state really. Cook cook cook, shop shop shop, in-fight in-fight in-fight. A villain emerges. So does Paul. Who is Paul? How come I never noticed him before? Is he new? He seems nice, which is refreshing. Stay nice, Paul, there are enough jerks on the show!

Spoilers below. Discuss!

Today in Rape Culture

[Trigger warning for rape culture.]

The CDC has just released the results of a comprehensive national survey on rape and domestic violence. The study, The National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey, has found that nearly a million women are raped in the US every year.

One million women a year.

Here are some other key findings from the Executive Summary (pdf), none of which should come as any surprise to regular readers of this space:
Nearly 1 in 5 women (18.3%) and 1 in 71 men (1.4%) in the United States have been raped at some time in their lives, including completed forced penetration, attempted forced penetration, or alcohol/drug facilitated completed penetration.

More than half (51.1%) of female victims of rape reported being raped by an intimate partner and 40.8% by an acquaintance; for male victims, more than half (52.4%) reported being raped by an acquaintance and 15.1% by a stranger.

Approximately 1 in 21 men (4.8%) reported that they were made to penetrate someone else during their lifetime; most men who were made to penetrate someone else reported that the perpetrator was either an intimate partner (44.8%) or an acquaintance (44.7%).

An estimated 13% of women and 6% of men have experienced sexual coercion in their lifetime (i.e., unwanted sexual penetration after being pressured in a nonphysical way); and 27.2% of women and 11.7% of men have experienced unwanted sexual contact.

Most female victims of completed rape (79.6%) experienced their first rape before the age of 25; 42.2% experienced their first completed rape before the age of 18 years.

More than one-quarter of male victims of completed rape (27.8%) experienced their first rape when they were 10 years of age or younger.
The study also addressed something that we've discussed previously—experiencing multiple acts of sexual violence in one's lifetime. According to the CDC's findings, more than a third of women who had been raped as minors were also raped as adults.

Surviving sexual violence was also found to correlate with anxiety disorders and chronic health issues: "Both men and women who had been assaulted were more likely to report frequent headaches, chronic pain, difficulty sleeping, limitations on activity, and poor physical and mental health."

(Imagine if the amount of effort put into "ending obesity" because of its alleged drain on the healthcare system were put into dismantling the rape culture. But I digress.)

This news is being greeted with the usual shock and awe:
"That almost one in five women have been raped in their lifetime is very striking and, I think, will be surprising to a lot of people," said Linda C. Degutis, director of the National Center for Injury Prevention and Control at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, which conducted the survey.

"I don't think we've really known that it was this prevalent in the population," she said.
I hate the shock and awe response. Shock and awe is a loyal accomplice to the rape culture, its job to lay the tidy, irresistible pathstones to overwhelmed, where indifference justified by presumed defeat takes root.

I greet these numbers not with surprise, but with steely resolve. Yes, they are terrible. And I stare them in their ugly face and let them try to do their worst to my determination, and then I take a breath and get back to work.

"Bro Cruelty" parodies Sarah McLachlan's sappy animal welfare PSA


BuzzFeed posted this pretty good parody of Sarah McLachlan's animal welfare PSA by Socially Awkward:



The original: